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Action Alert: Tell the Sizzler, “Stop Attacking Gay Customers!”

Posted: September 13th, 2011 | Author: | 1 Comment »

Being a friend means not staying silent when somebody’s treating your friends badly. That’s why we’ve launched a petition on Change.org: so you can tell the Sizzler that discrimination and violence against gay customers won’t fly on your watch.

Add your name now.

The full story is in the petition, but here’s an excerpt that’ll send shivers down the spine of anyone who enjoys the occasional meal out with gay friends:

Sizzler's gay assault won't be toleratedImagine being out to brunch with a few pals. So far so good, right? Until, the manager aggressively approaches your friend, yelling and accusing her of not paying for brunch.

Screaming, the manager violently shoves your friend. He calls her a f***ing d*ke. An angry mob of patrons joins in, relentlessly attacking your friend with homophobic and hate-filled language, even threatening her with sexual assault. Finally the police arrive and your friend is taken, bruised and battered, by ambulance to a nearby hospital.

Take action now to help make it right.

It’s unthinkable, but true. This is what happened to Liza Friedlander at the Sizzler in Queens, and it could happen to you and your gay, lesbian, bi, or transgender friends. Lambda Legal has taken up Liza’s case, and now’s our chance to make a public showing that we all think this sort of treatment is unacceptable.

This isn’t an abstract political argument about why gay Americans should have full freedom from violence and fear of bias crimes. This is a real story that happened to someone’s real friend. This is why we all need to stand together and denounce this behavior and the lack of corporate response: we still live in a world where this can happen to our friends.

Be a friend: Add your voice.

Send a powerful message that it’s not just gay people who care about discrimination and assault – we all do. You can make a difference today by demanding that the management at Sizzler provides better training on anti-discrimination policies, gets serious about enforcement, and speaks out against discrimination and violence toward customers. Gay assault is assault, period.

Take Action: After you sign the petition yourself, share it or this blog posts with as many friends as you can. If we can reach our goal of 5,000 signatures, we’ll be letting Liza and all our gay friends know we have their backs when it gets tough. We can hold this corporation accountable and make the world a little safer for everyone.

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Funny Ladies Who Made an Impact – Thanks to these Amazing Celeb Friend-Setters

Posted: August 24th, 2011 | Author: | No Comments »

You certainly don’t have to have a prime-time standup special to help your friends win full legal freedoms… but it doesn’t hurt! On the two-month anniversary of New York legalizing marriage for gay couples, we wanted to give a shout out of sincere thanks to the comediennes and other inspiring stars who encouraged fans and friends to call legislators in the name of love.

Chelsea Handler, Sarah Silverman, Margaret Cho, and Fran Drescher are funny-lady Friend-setters

 

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